Quantcast
Channel: The Good Men Project
Viewing all articles
Browse latest Browse all 165

Comment of the Day: ‘You see boys holding back tears with balled fits and a face full of hot air because he wasn’t allowed to cry.’

$
0
0

boy mad sad

This comment was by Anthony Brown on the post “Why We Need to Lay Down our Weapons in the Battle of the Sexes.”

As a little boy most of the men wouldn’t allow tears or an expression of sadness, it was frowned upon. Emotions were a “girls” trait. You see boys holding back tears with balled fists and a face full of hot air because he wasn’t allowed to cry. He didn’t want to be considered a “little girl” or any other adjective men used to quiet a little boys emotion. Anger on the other hand was fully accepted, men would laugh and say things like “look he’s mad now”, it would be the only tool a boy had to be heard in the slightest.

Escape from the Man Box Premium Member

Would you like to help us shatter stereotypes about men?  Receive stories from The Good Men Project, delivered to your inbox daily or weekly.

Photo: Randen Pederson / flickr

The post Comment of the Day: ‘You see boys holding back tears with balled fits and a face full of hot air because he wasn’t allowed to cry.’ appeared first on The Good Men Project.


Viewing all articles
Browse latest Browse all 165

Trending Articles